MONOGAMY IS ROMANISM STILL
Take monogamy as it is to-day, in Protestant countries, and
we see that the old Roman leaven is still in it.
Christianity has not reformed and purified that system so
much as that has corrupted Christianity. Most of us in these
countries are accustomed to congratulate ourselves upon our
happy escape from the bondage and the bigotry of the Papal
Church. But we are mistaken. We have not escaped. Rome
binds us in stronger shackles than the iron chains of the
holy Inquisition. Her shackles are upon our consciences:
they are intertwined with every fibre of our social life.
Much of her intolerant spirit, many of her questionable
doctrines and practices, and her traditional forms and
ceremonies, are still common to the nominally Christian
world. In respect to a
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few of them, we have discovered that they are unscriptural,
and unsupported by divine authority, and are therefore of no
binding obligation; but, by many other traditional doctrines
and practices of that hierarchy, we are unconsciously, and
therefore so much the more securely fettered. We boast of
our Christian freedom, while we are, in fact, but little
better than slaves; for if we are nominally free, yet we are
bound by an apprenticeship to Rome more degrading than our
former slavery itself: and our boasted emancipation is but a
miserable farce. We are too servile and timid in our
interpretation of the Bible, and in our examination of the
divine and natural laws. We hesitate to follow the simple
truth to its legitimate and logical conclusions. We stand
aghast at the radical changes which severe truth requires in
our religious and social systems. We shrink from exploring
the profound labyrinths to which truth attempts in vain to
lead us; while we look anxiously around for clews and
leading-strings by which to trace our way. We dare not go
forward without example and authority; and authority and
example are reconducting us to Rome.
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Our great champion, Dr. Martin Luther, made a few bold steps
in the right direction, but stopped far short of the ultimate
results to which his own principles were leading. A
Protestant in theory, he was, in practice, essentially a
Romanist. He insisted much upon justification by faith
alone, and declared personal piety to be necessary to true
Christianity; and yet he admitted all citizens, irrespective
of their faith or their want of it, to the most solemn and
most esoteric ordinances of the Christian Church. He
repudiated the authority of earthly potentates to compel
men's Christian belief, but retained the union of Church and
State in order to compel their Christian obedience. He
denied the infallibility of the pope, and the miraculous
power of the priesthood, and yet believed in the Real
Presence, if not the adoration of the host. His disciples
are to-day imitating his example rather than promoting his
principles, and possess little more evangelical faith than
the Romanists themselves.
Henry the Eighth, the founder of the Church of England, was
even less a Protestant than Luther; and the present tendency
of many of the most
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influential doctors and dignitaries of this Church is in the
same retrograde direction as that of the Lutherans. Yet
these two churches, the Anglican and the Lutheran, are the
main pillars of Protestantism,- the Boaz and Jachin of the
porch of the new temple. I have not lost my hope that the
truth of gospel simplicity will ultimately prevail over
ecclesiastical bigotry; but it may require as many centuries
for the Christian world to unlock the trammels of the Roman
hierarchy, and to escape from its thraldom, as it originally
required to fix those trammels upon the consciences of
Christian freemen.
But the Romans are more consistent in their system of
monogamy than we are; for while the dogmas of the Church
forbid polygamy, and even single marriages to the ministry,
they provide for the surplus women, by having numerous
societies of nuns and sisters of charity, who make a merit of
necessity, by assuming the vows of perpetual celibacy, to
serve the Church, and acquire religious merit. As
Protestants, we have been taught to believe that these
monastic institutions have proved to be schools of vice, and
that the vows of perpet-
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ual chastity assumed in them are unnatural and wicked, and
that they are often violated under the detestable hypocrisy
of sacerdotal sanctity.*1 For
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these reasons, we have suppressed the nunneries; but we have
made no provision for the nuns, and those who would have
become nuns. In those institutions they were, at least,
assured of a home and a support, even if they did learn vice;
but now, when thrown upon the world, they are still more
exposed to vice, and are without a home and without support.
Under Catholic monogamy, if a young woman made a false step,
she could hide
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her shame in a convent, and devote her future life to
penitence and prayer; but, under Protestant monogamy, the
frail fair sinner has no such refuge. Her first lapse from
virtue shuts her out forever from the respect and sympathy of
the world, and from the hope of future reformation; and her
downward career to the gates of hell is so generally taken
for granted, that it becomes almost a certainty. The only
safe and proper provision for homeless women is marriage. An
early marriage will usually save them from the dangers to
which they are exposed. Monogamy cannot secure their
marriage; but polygamy can: yet we are taught to look with
horror upon polygamy as one of the "relics of barbarism,"
although it is plainly taught in the Bible, and is the only
social system which provides marriage for all, and which
secures the honest and lawful gratification of those
impetuous passions which must be and which will be indulged
in some manner, if not by marriage, then without it; while we
wink at all the disgusting abominations of prostitution,
divorce, adultery, and other vices, which are the well-known
and the inevitable results of restricted marriage. Monogamy,
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in "forbidding to marry," assumes all the curses which
this prohibition entails. We must choose between the system
which provides marriage for all, with comparative purity, or
the system of restricted marriage with inevitable impurity.
IMPURITY OF MODERN MONOGAMY
The Bible forbids prostitution, but permits polygamy. The
ancient Greeks and Romans forbade polygamy, but permitted
prostitution. Modern monogamy pretends to forbid both, but
really permits prostitution also. Our monogamous morality
is, therefore, that of ancient paganism and not that of the
Bible; and prostitution is as much a necessary part of our
social system as it was of that at Athens, at Corinth, or at
Rome. Our magistrates are not ignorant of the extent of
public licentiousness; but they do not attempt to suppress it.
They only seek to conceal it, and confine it, if possible,
within its present limits, requiring its votaries to keep it
in the dark. Our police-officers know almost every prostitute
that walks the street, and allow her to ply her nefarious
trade unmolested, so long as she is polite
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and unobtrusive. As the Spartans are reputed to have said
to the youth of their state, in respect to theft, "Steal, but
do not be caught at it," so the guardians of our public
morals say, "You may be as licentious as you please, only
make no public display of your immorality." The reason of
this connivance at prostitution must be because our
legislators and judges believe its suppression to be
impossible; and, with our system of monogamy, it is
impossible. If there must be a multitude of women unmarried
and unprovided for, there will be a multitude of prostitutes;
and, if there are a multitude of prostitutes, there will be a
multitude of men, who like Shakespeare's Falstaff, will
decline marriage, because they can be "better accommodated
than with a wife:" and so the evil will go on continually
increasing and propagating itself. The Foundling Hospital,
the Five Points House of Industry, and the Home for
Friendless and Abandoned Women, must be built alongside of
the brothel; and their numerous inmates must be maintained
either by public tax or by Christian charity (most frequently
by the latter) : so that honest
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men must support their own wives and children and also the
cast-off drabs and bastards of unprincipled libertines. If we
must have public prostitutes, let us have them openly and
boldly, as the ancient Greeks and Romans did; and let them be
publicly licensed, as they were under Caligula, and as they
are said to be still in France; and let the state derive, at
least, sufficient revenue from them to bury their murdered
infants, and to bring up their abandoned foundlings.
THE HIGHER LAW OF CHRISTIAN PHILANTHROPY.
Let me not be misunderstood in what I have just said. I do
not depreciate that form of charity which seeks out the
victims of licentiousness, and makes them the special objects
of its beneficence. I would not say one word in its
disparagement. On the contrary, I acknowledge its
genuineness. Such charity is worthy of great commendation:
it is in a special sense true Christian charity, for it is
eminently Christ-like; since he came to seek and to save the
lost, and disdained not to be called the Friend of publicans
and sinners. But what I demand is this, that this form of
Christian charity
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should so expand its efforts and its aims as fully to
meet the case, and yield a permanent and radical relief to
that class of the poor and miserable which it has taken under
its charge. Let its aims be so comprehensive, so high, so
broad, and so deep, that it cannot be satisfied with any
thing less than a prevention of the "social evil" which it
has hitherto attempted only to alleviate. And it is
certainly no slander to our present charities of this kind,
to say that the alleviation which they have effected is
altogether inadequate. The miserable victims of this vice
are increasing faster than the ability or the disposition to
relieve them. The most enthusiastic philanthropists have
already become disheartened in vainly endeavoring to furnish
sufficient relief, and they can see no means of prevention.
They are at their wit's-end; and some of them have become
fully aware, that, under our present social system, no
prevention can be possible. "While sin is in the world,"
some say, "we cannot prevent men and women from sinning: they
will sin, in spite of us and in spite of everything; and the
world itself is growing more and more depraved and wicked
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every day. All that we can do is to show Christian mercy,
and grant some present relief." But the true Christian
philanthropist does not rest satisfied in such conclusions.
He knows that it is not true that the world is growing worse
and worse, but that facts and statistics prove the contrary.
He believes in the "good time coming," and that the world is
actually growing better and better. Many causes of human
misery have been discovered and removed, or greatly
diminished, and he hopes that more will be. The average
duration of human life is actually being prolonged. The
average state of health is incontestably being improved.
Christianity has not been instituted in vain. It has already
accomplished wonders of mercy and grace, and its blessed work
of reform is still going on. The true philanthropist,
therefore, must not and will not despair. If no preventive
of licentiousness has hitherto been found, and if it be
impossible to find any under our present social system of
marriage, we must look for it under some other system.
Marriage was made for man, and not man for marriage.
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IS THE "SOCIAL EVIL" PREVENTIBLE?
But perhaps some may suppose that sincere and genuine piety
is a sufficient preventive of licentiousness, and that, when
all the people become truly converted, and well instructed in
religious knowledge, then they will be secure from this vice.
I have great confidence in genuine piety, and believe that it
is indeed the best antidote to all the ills that flesh is
heir to; but the difficulty is, that it is this very
licentiousness which is hindering people from becoming pious.
And, besides this, it is not from want of religious knowledge
that people become licentious: they have already had line
upon line, and precept upon precept, for many successive
generations. They know that licentiousness is a sin; and
they know, that, when they fall into it, they become liable
to the most fearful punishment, both in this life and in the
world to come: but the tyranny of monogamy has left them no
alternative; they have no other available means of gratifying
the wants of nature. Marriage is impossible to half the
women, and a single marriage is inadequate to the
requirements
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of half the men. Pious exhortation is but idle talk to those
who are sinning from the excitement of amorous desire of
which there is no possible gratification except a sinful one.
If the philanthropist who is giving them these exhortations
cannot point out a lawful means of meeting those natural
wants, of what profit can his exhortations be? "If a brother
or a sister be naked, and destitute of daily food, and one of
you say unto them, Depart in peace, be ye warmed and filled;
notwithstanding ye give them not those things which are
needful to the body; what doth it profit?" It is not
instruction which our "destitute and abandoned women" want;
they want marriage; they want homes of their own to shelter
them, and husbands to love them and to provide for them. And
I have already demonstrated that it is their right to have
them; their natural and unquestionable right, of which the
injustice and tyranny of monogamy has cruelly deprived them.
Society has wronged them; and with their own peculiar,
intuitive instinct they feel it, though they cannot tell
exactly how. Society, somehow, has made war upon them, most
un-
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justly; and, when they become licentious, it is from an
instinctive feeling of self-defense; it is only to take such
justifiable revenge upon society as a state of warfare
authorizes, and has, in a manner, rendered necessary.
Now, let this warfare cease. Let the women have their rights.
Let every woman have a husband and a home; and let every man
have as many women as he can love, and as can love him, and
as he is able to support, until all the women are provided
for: then, and not till then, will prostitution cease; and
then the happy time that the poet dreamed of, when he put the
apparently extravagant sentiment into his hero's mouth, which
I have placed upon my titlepage, will have come at last, and
"There shall be no more widows in the land."*2
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MONOGAMY OCCASIONS SEDUCTION AND RUIN
If any of my readers have failed to see that there is any
necessary connection between monogamy
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and female ruin, I beg them to examine carefully the
following observations. It has been demonstrated, in a
former chapter, that monogamy leaves a multitude of women
unprotected, and unprovided with the privileges of marriage.
It does
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not and it cannot furnish half of them with husbands and
homes of their own; hence the galling bondage of female
dependence; hence the difficulty of woman's finding her
"sphere." Yet there is nothing mysterious or doubtful about
what constitutes her sphere; for it is defined by the simple
term "home," - that word, above all others, so charming, and
so suggestive of every excellence in the female character,
and of all the sweet memories which cluster round the blessed
names of mother,
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sister, and bride. But, alas! the practical mystery with an
immense number of women still remains; and that is, how to
find a home. A father's house is no longer a home to many a
young woman; perhaps that father is poor, and the burden of
years is at last superadded to that of poverty. He
cheerfully toiled for his child while she was young and
necessarily dependent upon him; and, as she grew up to
womanhood, he stinted not to bestow upon her such learning
and such accomplishments as his scanty means could command;
and his heart was often cheered by the hope of seeing her
well married and well settled in life: but, as these hopes
are not realized, he begins to feel the burden of her
maintenance. "She is old enough to provide for herself," and
"Why doesn't she get married?" Sure enough! poor thing, why
doesn't she? But oh! how cruel to reproach her with her
involuntary dependence and her miserable lot! And it is an
immense relief to her, when it is at length decided that she
must go out to service. And so she goes to toil for bread
among strangers. Her frail form is overburdened, and often
broken down, by unremitting and ill-requited labor, and her
young heart
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not unfrequently corrupted and hardened by unavoidable
contact and contamination with vice.
THE HARLOT'S PROGRESS
What wonder is it, then, that, under such circumstances, the
unprotected, wearied, homesick girl should yield a reluctant
ear to the seductive flatteries of the profligate libertine,
who scruples not to utter vows of constancy, and draw fond
pictures of future affluence, to be shared with her; but who,
having accomplished his fiendish purpose, and stolen from
her, forever, her only dower of innocence and purity, now
ignores his vows and promises, and casts her off to seek and
ruin another victim! What shall become of that poor,
desolate, guilty, heart-broken wretch thus ruthlessly
abandoned? Alas! the result is scarcely doubtful: it is too
often experienced. Despised by herself no less than by the
world, driven in anger from the paternal threshold, the gates
of honest toil and the doors of Christian charity closed
against her, she yields to hopeless despair, and even for the
miserable purpose of prolonging a wretched existence, she
abandons herself at length to a life of open
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shame; becoming herself the means of propagating that misery
of which she is such an unhappy victim.
The artificial system of monogamy offers up other sacrifices
on the unholy altar of abandoned lust, besides those
furnished from among the daughters of toil or the victims of
seduction. The accomplished, the refined, the proud, and the
wealthy have furnished their full proportion to swell the
aggregate number of the lost. We hope, of course, that much
the larger portion of women who have been well brought up,
and have failed to marry, have lived and died honest old
maids. They never quite lost their hope. Poor, simple souls,
they had always been told that their husbands would come for
them by and by; that there is a Jack for every Gill, as many
men as women in the world; and so they sat and waited, -
"Rusticus expectant, dum difluat amnis; at ille Labitur et
labetur in omne volubilis aevum."
And thus the ceaseless tide of human life rolls on and on,
the number of competitors among marriageable maids abates
not, the number of men
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who are ready to marry augments not. Some, therefore, among
the higher and the middling ranks of life, who ought to die
old maids, according to the system of monogamy, do not so
die. The very pride and spirit of accomplished women have
sometimes proved their ruin. When they have discovered that
real men are comparatively rare in the matrimonial market,
and that there are more rakes and triflers than honest lovers
in society, and that there cannot be husbands and homes
provided for more than half the women, - being unable to
suppress all their strong susceptibilities of love, and
unwilling to surrender all their rights to its enjoyment, -
they have deliberately determined to enjoy what they can
without marriage; and thus to defy the scorn of men and the
wrath of God.
But passion does not impel so great a number of intelligent
women to self-abandonment, as a desire of self-support and a
dread of being an intolerable burden to others. Under such
apprehensions, many unhappy women, who had been nursed in the
lap of luxury, and accustomed to every indulgence during
childhood, have found, after coming of age, that as year
after year passed round, and no
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eligible opportunity of marriage occurred, their presence at
home was becoming more and more unwelcome, and their
formidable bills of expenses more and more reluctantly
allowed, till they have at last fled from those halls of
wealth, and from an intolerable dependence on churlish
relatives, to a still more wretched existence in the haunts
of public vice.
How great is the injustice and oppression of the social
system which makes no other provision for so many of its most
beautiful and originally innocent daughters than this! Well
may the poet thus rave against the social tyranny of our
system.
"Cursed be the social lies that warp us from the living
truth; Cursed be the social wants that sin against the
strength of youth; Cursed be the sickly forms that err from
honest Nature's rule." TENNYSON.
MONOGAMY CAUSES CHASTITY AND RELIGION TO BE HATED
Monogamy being partial in its privileges, and oppressive in
its prohibitions, like every other oppressive and unjust
thing, provokes resentment and
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enmity, and cannot be thoroughly maintained and honestly
observed. Human nature is constantly rebelling against it,
and is persistently asserting its inherent and inalienable
right to all the benefits of love and marriage, of which this
system has deprived it. These struggles for freedom from
oppression of monogamy, being made in ignorance of the
privileges of polygamy, have assumed the form of defiant
transgression against the laws of chastity itself; for the
popular conscience is so depraved by the erroneous education
of our social system, as to regard the restrictions of
monogamy as identical with those of religion. And, finding
them too hard to be borne, instead of resorting to the just
and proper alternative of polygamy, many persons have broken
away from all moral restraint whatever, have given loose rein
to impetuous passion, and have become lost to every sentiment
of virtue and to every hope of heaven.
As Christianity itself was outraged and repudiated at the
period of the French Revolution, on account of the abuses of
Roman Catholicism, with which the popular mind had confounded
it (Romanism being the only acknowledged form of Christianity
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then known in that country, so that, when they rose
against it, they rose against Christianity itself, and became
raging demons of barbarity and crime), so now, throughout
Europe and America, is chastity outraged and religion
repudiated on account of the unjust restrictions which
monogamy has instituted in their names. But neither religion
nor chastity are the real objects of this hatred. All men
sincerely respect the one and revere the other. Yet many
cannot see how to assert their natural rights and achieve
their long-lost freedom without destroying both. Polygamy
alone solves the problem how those rights can be enjoyed
while chastity is preserved and religion maintained; for
polygamy alone can honestly furnish sufficient indulgence of
love to all the men, and sufficient protection of marriage to
all the women. Monogamy says, "Thou canst marry but one
woman, and one only shalt thou love," without regard to the
condition of that woman, or her ability or inability to meet
his conjugal wants.
It is a physical fact that women are not only
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less inclined to amorous passion than the men, at all times,
but they are also subject to interruptions and periodical
changes, which men do not experience. During the long period
of lactation, or nursing, most women have a positive
repugnance to the embrace of love, as well as during the
progress of certain nervous chronic disorders peculiar to the
sex, which are aggravated, if not caused, by frequent
connubial intercourse; so much so, that some medical men
insist upon entire separation from the marriage-bed during
the continuance of these disorders, and also during the
period of lactation. At such times, one would suppose that
no civilized man, or at least that no Christian man, could be
so brutal and so cruel as to force his wife to yield to his
propensities against her own inclinations and in spite of her
repeated and earnest remonstrances: but nothing is more
certain than that there are many thousands of just such
Christian men; for what can the poor monogamist do? The
healthful currents of vigorous life impel him to amorous
desires; and he cannot afford to shut down the gates or to
shut off the steam. To do so would involve immense loss of
pleasure and of
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power. The passions furnish the only streams to turn the
machinery of action; and love is the strongest of them all.
While there is the hope of indulgence, the machinery runs
smoothly, and the whole man is full of life and buoyancy and
power; but, if this master-passion must be repressed, its
unnatural restraint absorbs all the remaining strength of the
man, and he is no better than a hermit or a monk. Hence no
vigorous man is willing to endure this restraint. Yet the
Christian monogamist has been taught that it is both a sin
and a shame to look for the gratification of his desires away
from home; so the poor heart-broken and back-broken wife
must submit to torture, and so the otherwise kind and
honorable husband must commit violence upon his dearest
friend, whom he has most solemnly promised to love and to
cherish, in sickness and in health, till death shall part
them. Many a poor wife then prays for death to part them
soon. But other men, at such times, disdaining to avail
themselves of extorted pleasures, which can afford so little
satisfaction, and despising that religion which will justify
or allow such cruel brutality, then steal away from their
unwilling
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wives, and, in defiance of the most solemn obligations and
sacred laws of God and man, go and do worse; defiling the
beds of virgin innocence, or wasting their health and
strength upon vile prostitutes. Which horn of this trilemma
should the vigorous husband of the invalid woman choose;
imbecile continence, wicked licentiousness, or matrimonial
brutality? Would not polygamy be an alternative preferable
to either? Would it not be more just and more merciful than
either? It is just and merciful to both men and women; it
preserves the marriage-bed undefiled; it provides husbands
for all the women; and it allows each man to take more than
one wife when circumstances warrant and require it. And they
often do require it. The extraordinary vehemence and
intensity of the amorous propensity which some men experience
is sufficient of itself to require it. Such men can no more
restrain this desire than that for their necessary food. They
may call to their assistance every motive to continuence that
can be drawn from heaven and earth and hell, but they often
call in vain; for the intensity of this passion sweeps down
every barrier, and rushes to its grati-
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fication. If, then, there will be and there must be
indulgence, let it be such as is regulated and controlled by
divine and natural law. God who made man and who knows what
is in man, has provided sufficient means to supply his
natural amorous wants. Marriage is that means; and, as one
wife is not always sufficient, he has provided more. There
are women enough, and no man need be either pining or sinning
for want of them.
"Take the good the gods provide thee: Lovely Thais sits
beside thee, Blooming like an Eastern bride, In flower of
youth and beauty's pride. Happy, happy, happy pair! None but
the brave, None but the brave, None but the brave deserves
the fair."
GREAT MEN ARE ALWAYS POLYGAMISTS
And it is the brave, the gifted, the talented, that deserve
the fair, who have always desired the fair, and won the fair.
"Lovely Thais" never refuses to unveil her charms to the true
hero. Great men always recognize the voice of God in the
voice of
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Nature, no matter under what social system they may live.
They yield to the natural and the divine behests, even though
they transgress the laws of ordinary social life. They obey
God rather then men; and this obedience is the first element
of their greatness. Ordinary laws may be sufficient to
restrain ordinary men; but when a Samson is within their
bonds, those bonds are snapped asunder like the green withes
and the new ropes of Delilah. Yet, were not our social laws
so manifestly arbitrary and oppressive, such eminent
philosophers as Plato, Aristotle, and Bacon, such noble
heroes as Alexander, Caesar, Napoleon, and Nelson, such
divine poets as Goethe, Burns, and Byron, and such
enlightened statesmen as Pericles, Augustus, Buckingham,
Palmeston, and Webster, and many thousands more, would never
have incurred the odium of libertinism as they have. Although
they lived under the system of monogamy, they would not and
did not submit to it. Their noble natures required a larger
indulgence, and they took it, law or no law, like brave men
as they were. And there are many more such men than the
world dreams of in its narrow monogamic philosophy;
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and yet it is a shame and a pity that our social laws cannot
be so amended, and brought into harmony with those of God and
Nature, that our noblest men would yield them the most prompt
obedience. And is it not a sad pity, a burning shame, and a
fearful wrong that our laws are such, that such men cannot
acknowledge their mistresses, and avow their children? The
wrongs of these women and children are crying to God from the
ground, and be will hear and judge. These great men are
brave; but they are not brave enough. They have no just
right to practise their polygamy in the dark. Let us have
either an honest monogamy or an avowed polygamy. Hence it is
that I am called by justice of God and the sufferings in
mankind in behalf of a greater freedom to marry, and a
greater purity of the marriage relation. Let us have such
marriage laws, that whatever relations any honorable man
shall determine to form with the other sex can be honorably
formed and honorably maintained.
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HYPOCRISY OF MONOGAMY
But an honest monogamy is an impossibility. Wherever it is
practised, it is a system of hypocrisy. It is a veil of
abstemiousness assumed to conceal a mass of hidden
corruption. Its direct tendency is to stimulate the
contemptible vices of intrigue and lying, as well as the
equally detestable ones of prostitution and adultery. By
attempting to deprive one-half the women of any lawful and
honorable means of amorous pleasure, and by allowing the men
only partial and inadequate means, it impels a multitude of
each sex to secret transgression, or else to open profligacy;
and thus the laws of chastity are violated on every hand, and
truthfulness, integrity, purity, and honor are becoming but
unmeaning terms.
No one familiar with social life in Europe will dare to
dispute that a large proportion of the upper classes of
society there are addicted to some form of licentiousness. It
is often observed there, that, as soon as the women marry,
they throw off the restraints of chastity, and encourage
secret lovers; and while each of the men live openly with
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one woman only, or with none, yet they indulge in promiscuous
criminal intercourse to an incredible extent. Now, which
social system is the more honorable and manly, the more
virtuous and pure, the one more in accordance with Nature and
the laws of Nature's God, - a pretended and a corrupt
monogamy, or an open and honest polygamy? Which manifests
the more base and selfish passion, - the man who espouses the
partners of his love, and takes them to his home and his
heart, and provides for them and their children, or the man
who steals away from his house in the dark, and indulges his
dishonorable and degrading passion in secret places, and then
abandons the partners of his guilty pleasure to a life of
wretchedness and shame and want?
"Domestic happiness, thou only bliss Of Paradise that has
survived the fall! Though few now taste thee unimpaired and
pure, Or, tasting, long enjoy thee! . . . . Thou art the
nurse of Virtue: in thine arms She smiles, appearing, as in
truth she is, Heaven-born, and destined to the skies again.
Thou art not known where Pleasure is adored, That reeling
goddess with the zoneless waist.
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And wandering eyes, still leaning on the arm Of Novelty, her
fickle, frail support; For thou art meek and constant, hating
change, And finding in the calm of truth-tried love Joys that
her stormy raptures never yield. Forsaking thee, what
shipwreck have we made Of honor, dignity, and fair renown!
Till prostitution elbows us aside In all our crowded streets;
and senates seem Convened for purposes of empire less Than to
release the adulteress from her bond." THE TASK.
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*1 The following citations are Froude's Hist. of Eng., vol.
ii., chap. 10.
"Only light reference will be made in this place to the
darker scandals by which the abbeys were dishonored. Such
things there really were, to an extent which it may be
painful to believe, but which evidence too abundantly
proves."
Among other specifications, Mr. Froude cites the letter of
the Archbishop of Canterbury (written A.D. 1489) to the Abbot
of St. Albans, wherein he accuses him thus: "'Not a few of
you fellow monks and brethren, as we most deeply grieve to
learn, giving themselves over to a reprobate mind, laying
aside the fear of God, do lead only a life of lasciviousness,
- nay, as is horrible to relate, be not afraid to defile the
holy places, even the very churches of God, by infamous
intercourse with nuns. You yourself, moreover, among other
grave enormities and abominable crimes whereof you are
guilty, and for which you are noted and diffamed, have, in
the first place, admitted a certain married woman named Elena
Germyn, who has separated herself, without just cause, from
her husband, and for some time past has lived in adultery
with another man, to be a nun, or sister in the Priory of
Bray; and . . . Father Thomas Sudbury, one of your brother
monks, publicly, notoriously, and without interference or
punishment from you, has associated and still associates with
this woman, as an adulterer with his harlot. Moreover,
divers other of your brethren and fellow-monks have resorted
and do resort continually to her and other women at the same
place, as to a public brothel or receiving house. Nor is
Bray the only house into which you have introduced disorder.
At the Nunnery of Sapwell, you depose those who are good and
religious, you promote to the highest dignities the worthless
and the vicious.'"
In the year 1536, the Report of Special Commissioners
appointed to inspect the Monasteries of England was laid
before parliament, by which it appeared, says Mr. Froude,
that "two-thirds of the monks in England were living in
habits which may not be described. . . . The case against
the monasteries was complete; and there is no occasion either
to be surprised or peculiarly horrified at the discovery.
The demoralization which was exposed was nothing less and
nothing more than the condition into which men of average
nature compelled to celibacy, and living as the exponents of
a system which they disbelieved, were certain to fall."
*2 "No man who loves his kind can in these days rest content
with waiting as a servant upon human misery, when it is in so
many cases possible to anticipate and avert it. Prevention is
better than cure; and it is now clear to all that a large
part of human suffering is preventible by improved social
arrangements. Charity will now, if it be genuine, fix upon
this enterprise as greater, more widely and permanently
beneficial, and therefore more Christian, than the other. It
will not, indeed, neglect the lower task of relieving and
consoling those, who, whether through the errors and
unskillful arrangements of society, or through causes not yet
preventable, have actually fallen into calamity. Its
compassion will be all the deeper, its relief more prompt and
zealous, because it does not generally, as former generations
did, recognize such calamites to be part of man's inevitable
destiny. When the sick man has been visited, and every thing
done which skill and assiduity can do to cure him, modern
charity will go on to consider the causes of his malady, and
then to inquire whether others incur the same dangers, and
may be warned in time. When the starving man has been
relieved, modern charity inquires whether any fault in the
social system deprived him of his share of Nature's bounty,
any unjust advantage taken by the strong over the weak, any
rudeness or want of culture in himself, wrecking his virtue
and his habits of thrift." [I continue this quotation with a
reservation; applying it to the first Roman Christians, but
doubting its truthfulness in respect to the "apostolic,"
Jewish Christians.]
"The first Christians were probably not so much hopeless of
accomplishing great social reforms, as unripe for the
conception of them. They did not easily recognize evil to be
evil, and did not believe, or rather had never dreamed, that
it could be cured. Habit dulls the senses, and puts the
critical faculty to sleep. The fierceness and hardness of
ancient manners is apparent to us; but the ancients
themselves were not shocked by sights which were familiar to
them. To us it is sickening to think of the gladiatorial
show, of the massacres common in Roman warfare, of the
infanticide practised by grave and respectable citizens, who
did not merely condemn their children to death, but often in
practice, as they well knew, to what was still worse, - a
life of prostitution and beggary. The Roman regarded a
gladiatorial show as we regard a hunt; the news of the
slaughter of two hundred thousand Helvetians by Caesar, or
half a million Jews by Titus, excited in his mind a thrill of
triumph; infanticide committed by a friend appeared to him a
prudent measure of household economy. To shake off this
paralysis of the moral sense produced by habit, to see misery
to be misery, and cruelty to be cruelty, requires not merely
a strong, but a trained and matured compassion. It was as
much, probably, as the first Christian could learn at once,
to relieve the sick, the starving, and the desolate. Only
after centuries of this simple philanthropy could they learn
to criticise the fundamental usages of society itself, and
acquire courage to pronounce that, however deeply rooted and
time honored, they were in many cases shocking to humanity.
"Closely connected with this insensibility to the real
character of common usages is a positive unwillingness to
reform them. The argument of prejudice is twofold. It is not
only that what has lasted a long time must be right or wrong,
must be intended to continue. We are advanced by eighteen
hundred years beyond the apostolic generation. Our minds are
set free, so that we may boldly criticise the usages around
us, knowing them to be but imperfect essays toward order and
happiness, and no divinely or supernaturally ordained
constitution which it world be impious to change. We have
witnessed improvements in physical well-being which incline
us to expect further progress, and make us keen-sighted to
detect the evils and miseries that remain. Thus ought the
enthusiasm of humanity to work in these days, and thus,
plainly enough, it does work. These investigations are
constantly being made, these reforms commenced." - ECCE HOMO.
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